Thursday, March 26, 2009

My life turning point -New year celebration at Namur, Belgium

As I said in the title it was the turning point in my life. I have been under deep depression becasue of so many issues. I used to discuss my problems with Manel. He was all the time comfort me by his kind words and I will be feeling good after reading his mail. I should here thank him for his support in all means.

In that big stress in dec .2008 I got a invitaion from my friend Isabelle (french speaking Belgium girl) for the New Year celebration. I was in Dortmund and I had the ticket from the university (in that I can travel one state for free) and reached the Aachen, border of belgium and germany. I wished to divert my mind from all these issues, I decided to visit her also i wanted to spend good time with her.. So I went to Liège-Guillemins in belgium , its like 30 mins by train from Aachen . Isabelle and Jerome (Isabelle's boyfriend) were there to take me to her home.
We were meeting after an year so we were so much excited and talking so many things.. I should say here abt our realtion how its started. When i came to first time Porto for my one year research programme she was starting her 6 months work for her Ph.D. We were new to Porto and it was really good to spend time in the lab with her. She is very good person and very pretty girl (sema kattai)....

(Here she is with me)..

I reached Namur on 30th dec. night. We went out for dinner and after we come back home Isabelle asked me to use the internet to check my mails. You cant beleive that it was a big surprise waiting for ... that I received a mail from FCT for my Ph.D (Which I was trying to get for several years). I got mail from FCT informing that they will transfer money to my account for the study from Jan.2009. I was so much excited (you imagine it was my dream to do my Ph.D in Porto under the guidance of Manel ). I informed Isabelle that i got the fellowship and immediately I forwarded th email to Manel. He sent me message in my mobile wishing me the new year also congratulated for the fellowship. we only know how much we suffered to get this offer. I could not sleep all the night. I was so relaxed and enjoying the hapiness .. I thank god at this moment.

Next day that is 31st december we decided to celebrate New year with Isablle's cousin home (Indian Party). We bought things to prepare chicken curry (Indian style) and Jerome bought things for him to prepare some dishes.. So we went to her cousin (Galy) home and myself and Jerome started cooking ..and we were ready to eat... Meanwhile I had spent good time with Galys son, Yahhel.. He was kissing me more than 100 times while I was cooking.. it was a great feeling to receive so many kisses .. here he is.... He called me all the time by my name correctly.. it was a big surprise for me..



(Isabelle, Galy's friend and Yahhel)


(They are all dancing for the music: i was drunken- believe me and I slept in the sofa itself)


I celebrated my happeist New Year 2009 (honestly speaking that was the happiest New year I ever celebrated) with good friends.. it was a great feeling.. I enjoyed with Champagne..


On New Year day We went to Isablle's parents home. Its in a village.. so silent place and it remembers all the time my village.. so beautiful with green..

and her home is sooooo big.... look at the kitchen..

(She is helping her aunty- its really a very big family : she has so many cousins ..... I could see so many people there in her home)


(Isabelle's father)
(Isabelle's grrand mother)
(I am with her Mother- she is really sweet and calm like Isabelle)


Had a great lunch with big family... After spending time with all the cousins and their babies we started back to Isabelle's home. We slept good and next day we went to see some places in Namur. Here are some photos.. the weather was very very cold and raining. I could not take good pictures..

(Namur- its the place where Isabelle lives- Very beautiful city...)












(Castle : near by her home)



(ts the university where she is currently studying)

(Me, Isabelle, Jerome and Yahhel: He gave me great company : Sweet boy: really sooooo sweet)

I should thank Isabelle here for a invitaion to visit her and family for the new year. Also Isabelle and Jerome were taking care of very well .. Thanks Isabelle and Jerome.
I went home back with good dreams of my future.. Its nothing but about my Ph.D grant from FCT... I felt i achieved something great...


I miss her so much in my lab... (I always laugh when I think abt her. it happened in our lab once that when we were working. Manel was asking us whether we are in need of something for the lab. She said him she needs boys.. unfortunately all the time we are girls working in his lab : believe me still now there is no boys in our lab : Manel'ku niraya macham.. enna sollareenga? ?? ? I am laughing now too : she is dare enough to ask for boys.. ha ha ha)
I am really waiting to visit her again.. I will for sure..


5 comments:

  1. Very nicely expressed Porkodi...!!! Many congerats for your achievement!!! Best wishes for the future..!!!

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  2. Thank you.. Should I thank you for your comments? I dont think so.. I dont want to be formal to thank you my dear santanu..

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  3. Thanks for these pictures... It was a great time... You are welcome here at anytime...
    all of my family miss you!

    I wish you all the best for the future!
    I hope to see u soon
    Kisses

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  4. Hi All...

    I miss you all a lot too.. I will definitely visit you all again as early as possible....

    kisses for all of you specially Yahhel..
    Porkodi

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  5. What memories
    I hope you're okay ...
    When will you return to Belgium?

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