Wednesday, December 09, 2009

How Hard is Maintaining a Relationship?

Guys,

I wanted to write this post since I wanted to maintain my relationship with my friends forever.. I never wanted to lose people.....

As much I know Its easy to find a people.. and its easy to start having a relationship with someone as a friend.. But it gets difficult when It comes to maintaing the relationship in a good shape....

Understnding this situation and get out from hurt I hope we need to first understand the type of person we are in realtion with...

Talking about the type of persons I should say some of the peoples types I have met...

Forgive and forget type : They are really matured.. That means even if we do mistakes if they are considering us as a good friend they forgive us and try to be good with us as normal as they way they are.. Whatever may be the mistakes if they are our good friends they forgive us.. I have some of my friends of this type.. I respect them in my life like anything.. Its hard to find these kind of people.. If you know someone in this type never try to lose them for your stupid mistakes.. These poeple are passionately commited towards the realtionship.. I am proud to say here that some of my friends are of this type and they accepted me as a good friend in their life.. Thanks guys..

Discuss and forgive type: Other type of people I have met are ready to discuss the issues when it comes to problem and try to solve the issue and try to maintain a relationship.. In this case it would be easy to solve the problems and maintain a relationship since they are ready to talk abt...

Hurt type : Some other people they just dont want to let us know the problems and they keep in their mind and easily hurt the other.. Its very easy to lose a relationship with these type of people when they didnt want to share the problem...

So here I am asking my friends that pls try to forgive my mistakes or pls discuss the issue with me when i do mistakes .. and I beg you guys never try to keep the issue with you and hurt the feelings of friendship.. I am ready to accept my problem and would try my level best to change myself to be a good friend ...